Severe Child Abuse Cases Continue to Rise with 3 Year Old's Death on Easter
For the third time in less than a month, a child has died at Cook Children’s due to severe child abuse. The latest victim is a 3 year old who died early Easter morning.
“It’s heartbreaking. We’ve seen a substantial increase in serious child abuse cases at Cook Children’s recently,” said Jamye Coffman, M.D., medical director of the Cook Children’s Center for Prevention of Child Abuse and Neglect and the CARE team. “We can’t say for certain if the effects of COVID-19 are driving this increase. All we can do right now is sound the alarm about what we are seeing.
Since March 17, nine children, all 4 years old or younger, have been admitted to Cook Children’s Medical Center for injuries related to child abuse. Three of those children died.
So far in 2020, a total of four children have died as a result of injuries related to child abuse, with three of those deaths occurring within four weeks of each other.
To help put that number in perspective, Cook Children’s saw a total of 4 deaths as a result of child abuse in all of 2017, 6 in 2018 and 6 in 2019.
“It’s concerning to see this spike coincide with the pandemic, especially without knowing when it will come to an end or the ultimate toll it will take on our communities,” said Anu Partap, M.D. director for the Center for Prevention of Child Abuse and Neglect at Cook Children's. “With stay-at-home orders in effect, coupled with the loss of jobs, support systems and routines, the results can be disastrous.”
Cook Children’s isn’t the only hospital reporting an increase in severe child abuse. Healthcare workers at the Arnold Palmer Children’s Hospital in Orlando, Florida saw eight children with severe injuries in the past few weeks.
"These are children with, I'm talking multiple fractures, head injures that go to the operating room, severe burns. These are critical," Dr. Donald Plumley, medical director for pediatric trauma at Arnold Palmer hospital told News 6 Orlando.
In observance of Child Abuse Prevention Month in April, Cook Children’s staff planted 2,055 pinwheels outside of the medical center to represent each child abuse visit in 2019. With isolation and stresses mounting due to COVID-19, we could see even more pinwheels planted at the hospital next year.
“We know that families are under more stress, whether related to income or children being out of school. There’s a lot of pressure on parents and caregivers right now,” said Dr. Coffman. “What’s most concerning for us is that we saw a similar rise in child abuse during the recession. We don’t want to see that again”
Dr. Coffman says that in 2008, prior to the recession, the most common cause of death due to traumatic injuries in children was car accidents. During the recession, that changed to abusive head trauma.
“As North Texas heads into the peak of COVID-19, we have to take steps to support one another and rally, as we would during any natural disaster,” said Dr. Partap. “We can offer help, a listening ear or even just empathy for a parent who is struggling.”
Dr. Partap suggests reaching out to friends and family with children, either virtually or by phone, just to check in and offer support. If you are a parent who is struggling, know the best thing you can do is ask for help.
“In Tarrant County, 211 is a great resource for parents,” said Dr. Partap. “The Texas COVID-19 mental health hotline, the national Child Help Hotline, Texas youth crisis hotline and domestic violence hotlines are on stand-by with 24/7 staff.”
"Stress is not an excuse for abusing your child, but rather we hope that caregivers can recognize their stress and ask for help rather than accelerate dangerous behaviors, and that others can recognize and intervene as well," Dr. Coffman added.
Social distancing doesn’t mean you’re alone.
• Stay in regular contact with family, friends and neighbors by phone, social media or other technology. Even a few minutes of conversation a day is important.
• Take part in healthy activities that relieve stress. Go outside, take a walk, read or tell stories. Find ways to ﬁnd joy and make connections.
Reduce the pressures of parenting
- You may feel like you have a lot more on your to-do list, especially with kids at home.
- Feel good about what is going well and celebrate the small things! Pat yourself on the back for a decent meal, a funny joke or just quiet moments.
- Build a new routine at home. Remember to include breaks for everyone to take care of themselves with downtime, playtime and exercise.
- Speak up when you need help and offer support to others when you can.
Reach out for help
Sometimes the pressure can be too much. Reaching out for help is important for you and your family. Following are 24-hour, free help lines for different needs.
- For conﬁdential support when you need help with the stresses of parenting, contact Child Help: - Call or text 1-800-4-A-Child (1-800-422-4453) or live chat at childhelp.org
- For help with teen-speciﬁc concerns: - Call Texas Youth Helpline: 800-989-6884 or text 512-872-5777
- For help with parenting tips, local resources and to learn about family fun: - Visit helpandhope.org
- For mental health support and crisis care, contact iCARE: - Call or text iCARE at 817-335-3022
- For access to services through a social service hotline: - Dial 2-1-1 or 877-541-7905 or visit 211texas.org
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About the Center for Prevention of Child Abuse and Neglect
At The Center for Prevention of Child Abuse and Neglect, we want you to know that you aren't alone. We're committed to strengthening families and communities so abuse and neglect of all forms can be avoided. We've compiled tips and resources to help you develop and promote healthy parenting so we can set strong examples against child abuse and neglect. If you should get overwhelmed, you'll find resources for that as well. Help is just a phone call away. Call the Texas Abuse Hotline at 1-800-252-5400.
Have children take a nap
Or put them in a safe place to play
Away from you
Stay near them but not with them
Talk about the way you are feeling
And what exactly is that you are feeling
Is not easy to be a parent and a teacher and s spouse and have all those responsibilities and cope with what is going around the world you are human you need someone
Call someone and on line
Or just go in the bathroom away from kids and scream
But don’t go near the kids till you calm down
If you believe
Pray and when calm include kids on praying together