According to Nicholas Rister, M.D., an infectious diseases pediatrician at Cook Children’s, anecdotes of COVID-19 parties are circulating the medical community nationwide. While he says we have not seen any confirmed cases of COVID-19 from such gatherings here in Fort Worth, he wants parents to know that we do not recommend intentionally getting COVID-19 given the uncertain benefits and potentially high-risk for harm.

"Historically, getting exposed to a disease as a protective measure is rarely indicated, but has occurred in the not-too-distant past with chickenpox," Dr. Rister explained. “We don’t recommend chickenpox parties now that we have a vaccine, but immunity was lifelong with those antibodies. With COVID-19, the immunity could be temporary and incomplete, so the benefit is unclear and maybe not what families are wishing for.”

He says even though children typically don’t get as sick as adults, there’s still a severe risk that comes being exposed to the disease.

“Most children do well compared to adults, but some kids do very poorly,” he said. “Some kids need to be intubated and end up in the hospital and could die, so just because most kids do well doesn’t mean your child will.”

And knowing which children will do well is still a mystery. Dr. Rister says we still have a lot to learn about COVID-19 and doctors don’t always know why one child ends up extremely ill while another may have mild symptoms.

“It’s hard say your child is truly safe or completely healthy and when exposed to the virus will turn out fine,” he said. “There’s certain cases where we know your child is going to be at a higher risk, like if your child has cancer, but there’s other children, who as far as we knew were completely healthy, but they got very sick and needed to go into the ICU. There’s almost certainly more to that story, but we couldn’t tell there was any other major illness even with lab work being done, so we wouldn’t expect parents to know either.”

We assume parents who may consider sending their child to a “COVID party” may be trying to take some control of a situation that is truly out of their hands. But Dr. Rister says all of that assumed control will go out the window when their child is admitted to the hospital.

“You’re now at the hospital and things can get out of hand pretty fast,” he said. “Especially with the numbers so high right now, this is probably the worst moment to be engaging in that behavior.”

So bottom line is the risk of intentionally exposing yourself or your child to COVID-19 far outweigh any potential reward and should never be considered.

And just in time because she has a date.

"Her goal was to go to homecoming. She went last year with a little boy, and they're going again this year," said Claudia, Izzy's mother.

You may be thinking 11 is a little young for dating. Izzy's mom agrees, but she says she couldn't keep the two fourth graders apart. Especially since the boy has made the five-hour-trip (with his parents, of course) to Fort Worth, Texas from their hometown of Brownfield, Texas several times over the past year to see Izzy at Cook Children’s.

"She's truly an inspiration. I've had adults tell me that Izzy has changed their lives and made them better people. I think that's her purpose in life," said Claudia.

It's hard not to be changed by a kid like Izzy.

She's been in and out of hospitals, battling leukemia, since she was 2 years old. And while she's made friends during her various stays, she's watched many of them leave through the swinging doors at the end of the hallway and never return.

"I feel bad for the families who have been here two weeks, but we've been in here for 12 months and Izzy hasn't left once," said Claudia.

Part of the holdup was the bone marrow transplant Izzy received at Cook Children’s, which can result in six months of recovery in the Transplant Unit.

All of that is behind her now. It's finally Izzy's turn to leave Cook Children's Hematology/Oncology floor and get back home.

Two days before the big Homecoming game.