“Making New Year’s resolutions can be very beneficial for children because it teaches them the importance of setting goals and following through,” said Lizy Varughese, M.D., pediatrician with Cook Children’s in Lewisville. “Not only can goals be applied to a child’s eating habits and physical activities, but they also help teach important life lessons about the benefits of planning ahead and the success that comes from it.”

For many parents, taking time to sit down and discuss with a child the lessons learned during the past year, both good and bad, can serve as valuable, teachable moments and deepen family bonds. Because societal factors such as TV, friends and the Internet can strongly influence a young child’s behaviors, it’s crucial that parents help young ones map out and focus on a few simple, healthy resolutions that can later translate into positive behaviors as children grow and develop.

Keeping It Real

While it may be tempting as a parent to jump ahead and make a list of New Year’s resolutions for your children rather than waiting for them to develop a list on their own, empowering your kids to creatively embrace this time-honored tradition can be filled with good times and great memories.

Encourage children to start with a list of broader, bigger goals such as eating less junk food, spending less time playing video games, picking up their toys or making better grades. No matter how far-fetched goals may seem at first glance, parents should stay open-minded and flexible, resisting the urge to criticize their child’s resolutions. Remember, keeping the mood light and enthusiastic makes goal setting seem less like work and more like fun.

From there, Dr. Varughese suggests children break down their resolutions into small bites by using journaling as a method to help solidify goals.

“Begin the new year by writing down specific goals for eating and participating in sports and exercise activities,” Dr. Varughese said. “Children are more likely to complete a task if it’s written down and there is accountability for their progress. It’s also important to be flexible so the parent can help kids form a more attainable goal if a particular goal is not met or seems difficult for the child.”

Basic resolutions for the entire family may include:

• Eating meals at the table as a family at least four times a week.
• Preparing more meals at home.
• Limiting fast food and takeout.
• Packing lunches for school and work.
• Planting a garden.
• Going for a family bike ride, walk, swim or hike two times a week.

Lead By Example

According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, children begin to copy their parent’s behavior by age 3.

The greatest impact a parent can have on his or her child is by being a good example,” Dr. Varughese said. “Parents can make their own resolutions with their children and even participate in physical activities together. Taking an evening walk with them is not only a great health benefit, but it can also deepen the emotional bond they share.”

Read these New Year's tips from the American Academy of Pediatrics for children and youth for preschoolers, 5-12 and 13 and older. 

About the source

Lizy Varughese, M.D., attended Texas A&M University and received a B.S. in Biomedical Sciences. Dr. Varughese attended medical school at the University of Texas Health Science Center in Houston, Texas and completed her residency at Stony Brook University Hospital, Long Island, New York. She was then appointed Clinical Professor of Pediatrics from 2005-2006. After that, she joined a private practice in New Jersey for five years. She moved back to her hometown of Dallas, Texas, and joined Cook Children's Physician Network in Lewisville in 2013.

She is married to Dr. Shane Varughese and has two children, Noah and Sarah. Dr. Varughese enjoys photography, cooking, and church activities. Her passion in life is taking care of children and educating families on preventative care and battling childhood obesity.

If you want proof, read this diverse list of our most popular stories of 2016. We hope you enjoy our look back:

10. 7 Ear Infection Myths Every Parent Should Know. Parents flocked to this blog from Doc Smitty. Can your child go swimming with an ear infection? Do all ear infections need antibiotics? If your child gets ear tubes, will the infections stop?  All this and more was answered in this blog.

9. 7 Online Challenges This ER Doctor Warns Could Be Deadly Oh the Internet. Where kids do all kinds of things to get noticed and maybe go to hospital in the process. We asked our medical director of the Emergency Department to look at seven really silly, really dangerous dares that kids (or grownups for that matter) shouldn't try at home. 

8. Almond Milk: A Nutty Fad or Healthy Alternative. Almond milk sales have gone through the roof over the past decade. But is it the right drink for your child? Doc Smitty gave the answer in this informative piece. 

7. The Death of Ethan: A Life of Chronic Pain Ends in Tragedy. This is the most recent entrant in our list of top 10 stories. Only the fact that it was published in December kept this story out of the top five. We were so honored that Ethan's parents shared their son's story of a life filled with chronic pain. They want you to read it to learn about their son and hopefully help other children who may be suffering as well.

6. New Hope In Fight Against Deadly Brain-Eating Amoeba. The Lewis family holds a special place in the hearts of everyone involed in the Checkup Newsroom. Following the tragic death of their son Kyle to a brain infection caused by a water-born amoeba, Jeremy and Julie Lewis created Kyle Cares. Read their inspiring story as they fought to bring a drug to Cook Children's and other hospitals around the nation that may save children's lives.

5. 11 Tips That Could Save Your Daughter's Life.  In Janaury 2016, Rylie Whitten made national headlines after suffering one of the worst cases of toxic shock syndrome (TSS)  that her doctors had ever seen. Rylie's story moved us to run this informative piece on TSS that we hope every parent of a daughter reads.

4. A Sign From Heaven: Family Travels Across U.S. For Care at Cook Children's. A family's desperate search for answers on Google led them to Cook Children's. Read the fascinating story of what led this family to travel from Detroit, Mich. to Fort Worth, Texas, to be treated for a rare condition called hyperinsulinism.

3. The Most Common Rash You Never Knew About. Ever heard of molluscum contagiosum? We hadn't when Dr. Diane Arnaout wrote this blog for the newsroom. Dr. Diane's informative blog "that will save you and your child pain, money, time and anxiety" went viral quickly and became our third most read story of the year.

2. RSV On The Rise: 6 Things Every Parent Should Know. Here we are at the beginning of 2017 and we have been lucky in that we haven't seen much flu yet at Cook Children's. But we have seen plenty of RSV (respiratory syncytial virus), which explains the popularity of this great blog from Dr. Lizy Varughese.

1. Let's Learn Something: Bouncers, Jumpers and Walkers. Dr. Diane Arnaout's "Let's Learn Something" series was a big hit this year and none were bigger than this tale of caution. Dr. Diane's blog on how baby bumpers, bouncers and activity centers could play a role in your baby's motor delays is our most read new story of 2017. You've probably read this blog. But if you aren't one of the more than 117,000 readers who took a look, now's the time. And if you have read it, feel free to click again.

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Because societal factors such as TV, school, friends and the Internet can strongly influence a young child’s behaviors, it’s important that parents help young ones map out and focus on a few simple, healthy resolutions that can later translate into positive behaviors as children grow and develop.

“Making New Year’s resolutions can be very beneficial for children because it teaches them the importance of setting goals and following through,” said Lizy Varughese, M.D., a pediatrician with Cook Children’s in Lewisville. “Not only can goals be applied to a child’s eating habits and physical activities, but they also teach important life lessons about the benefits of planning ahead and the success that comes from it.”

While it may be tempting as a parent to jump ahead and make a list of New Year’s resolutions for your child rather than waiting for them to develop a list on their own, empowering your kids to creatively embrace this time-honored tradition can be filled with good times and great memories.

Encourage children to start with a list of broader, bigger goals such as eating less junk food, picking up their toys or making better grades. No matter how far-fetched the goals may seem at first glance, parents should stay open-minded and flexible, resisting the urge to criticize their child’s resolutions. Remember, keeping the mood light and enthusiastic makes goal setting seem less like work and more like fun.

From there, Dr. Varughese suggests children break down their resolutions into small bites by using journaling as a method to solidify goals.

“Begin the new year by writing down specific goals for eating and participating in sports and exercise activities,” Dr. Varughese said. “Children are more likely to complete a task if it’s written down and there is accountability for their progress. It’s also important to be flexible so the parent can help kids for a more attainable goal if a particular goal is not met or seems difficult for the child.”

About the source

Dr. Varughese attended Texas A&M University and received a B.S. in Biomedical Sciences. She attended medical school at the University of Texas Health Science Center in Houston, Texas and completed her residency at Stony Brook University Hospital, Long Island, New York. She was then appointed Clinical Professor of Pediatrics from 2005-2006. After that, she joined a private practice in New Jersey for five years. She moved back to her hometown of Dallas, Texas, and joined Cook Children's Physician Network in Lewisville in 2013.

She is married to Dr. Shane Varughese and has two children, Noah and Sarah. Dr. Varughese enjoys photography, cooking, and church activities. Her passion in life is taking care of children and educating families on preventative care and battling childhood obesity.

The flu season is upon us once again ... what do you need to know as a parent?

1.What are symptoms of the flu?

The flu may start like the common cold with symptoms of cough, congestion and runny nose, but may also be associated with prolonged fever, muscle and body aches and fatigue. It is spread from person to person when an infected person, coughs, sneezes or talks and droplets are released into the air. It can also be spread less often from touching surfaces where drops are present. The flu virus is contagious from up to 1 day before the person presents with symptoms and up to 5-7 days after the symptoms resolve.

2. How can you protect yourself?

The best way to protect yourself is by getting the flu vaccine as soon as it becomes available. Most doctors’ offices and clinics currently do have the flu vaccine available. Last year, flu activity peaked at the end of December to the beginning of January, but you may start seeing it as early as September-October this year.

Other means to protect yourself are effective hand washing and wiping down surfaces with anti-bacterial/viral cleansers.

3. Why get the flu vaccine?

In the United States each year, more than 200,000 people are hospitalized from seasonal flu-related complications. Last year, there were more than 105 pediatric flu related deaths in the United States. On average the effectiveness of the flu vaccine last season was about 61 percent.

4. Who should get the flu vaccine?

• Everyone over the age of 6 months.
• Higher risk populations include those between the ages of 6 months to 5 years, children with asthma or other chronic disease, pregnant women, people with immune problems and adults  more than 65 years old.
• Children under the age of 8 MAY require 2 doses of the vaccine 4 weeks apart from each other depending on their previous immunization status.

5. Which flu vaccine is recommended?

There are several options for flu vaccines this year. For 2014–15, U.S.-licensed influenza vaccines will contain the same vaccine virus strains as those in the 2013–14 vaccine.

Trivalent flu vaccine protects against two influenza A viruses (an H1N1 and an H3N2) and an influenza B virus. This is only available in the injectable form.

The quadrivalent flu vaccine protects against two influenza A viruses and two influenza B viruses. The quadrivalent form is available as an injection and a nasal spray.

Specific Age Recommendations

• 6 months to 2 years: injectable flu vaccine only.
• 2 years to 8 years: nasal form is preferable according the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC). There was 50 percent more effectiveness with the nasal form vs. the injectable form in this age group. If the child is between the ages of 2 and 4 and has asthma or wheezed in the last year, then the injectable form is recommended.
• 8 years and above: either form is acceptable.

6. What happens if you get the flu?

See your health care professional as soon as possible because if it is treated with anti-viral medications in the first 48 hours, the duration as well as the severity of the illness can be decreased. The CDC does not recommend treatment of healthy individuals with anti-viral drugs, but certain high risk populations will benefit from treatment.