Cook Children’s partners with the organ procurement organization LifeGift. On April 24, representatives from LifeGift helped raise the “Donate Life” flag on our campus in honor of the patients who have received donated organs and the deceased patients who became organ donors.

“Cook Children’s has been working with LifeGift for years so we can help save lives in another way,” said Marie Boyd, Office Operations Manager in the Pediatric Intensive Care Unit.

Donors at Cook Children’s have provided kidneys, hearts, livers, lungs and other organs for transplant surgeries across Texas and beyond. Their first names and ages are etched into a memorial plaque near the medical center’s prayer garden. From 2022-2024 at Cook Children’s, there were 23 organ donors and 75 organs transplanted for a total of 63 lives saved.

“In the face of unimaginable loss, organ donation offers grieving families a rare and powerful gift: the chance for their child’s legacy to live on by saving another life or lives. It’s a profound reminder that even in the darkest moments, hope can take root,” said Mindy Coates, BSN, RN and LifeGift Chair.

A very special person, Eli Marski, joined this year’s flag raising. Eli received a life-saving kidney transplant when he was born. He shared powerful words to honor and thank all organ donors, especially his.

“I just am full of gratitude for the second chance that my child has been given,” Kami Williams, Eli’s mom, said. “I would say he’s a warrior, he’s my hero.”

LifeGift delivers lifesaving transplants to those who need them. Sign up online to register as a donor.

“So I found out I needed to get a kidney transplant due to my Lupus and was recovering,” Gomez wrote. “It was what I needed to do for my overall health. I honestly look forward to sharing with you, soon my journey through these past several months as I have always wanted to do with you.”

With the news of Gomez’s transplant, we thought it would be a good time to talk about a kidney transplant surgery. Cook Children’s has been performing transplants for years. The most recent was just two weeks ago on a toddler. Robert Gillespie, M.D, is a nephrologist and medical director of the program.

To get a better idea of what is involved with a kidney transplant, we talked with Blake Palmer, M.D., a member of Cook Children’s Urology Program and a surgeon who performs the kidney transplant operations.

1. What is a kidney transplant?

Dr. Palmer:  kidney transplant is when someone whose kidneys are not working for whatever disease process (i.e. -Lupus for Selena) can be on dialysis for renal replacement therapy and do the job her kidneys are not doing to maintain her life and health or they can have a kidney transplant. A kidney transplant means we remove a functioning kidney from a donor (can be living or recently deceased) and surgically place the kidney in the patient. This requires connecting the artery and vein of the kidney to the patient’s blood system and connecting the ureter from the new kidney to the patient’s bladder so that the new urine the kidney makes goes into the bladder so they can pee again.

2. How is the decision made that someone needs a new kidney and what goes into the decision making process?

Dr. Palmer: First, you have to have poorly functioning kidneys to the point you need to be on dialysis because they have failed. Second, you have to be otherwise healthy enough to benefit from the transplant and be healthy enough to undergo the surgery and recovery process.

3. Who can receive a kidney transplant at Cook Children’s?

Dr. Palmer: You have to be at least 10 kilograms (about 22 pounds) and healthy enough with renal failure. We go all the way up to age 18. Kids who weigh at least 10 kilograms are usually 2 years at the earliest.

4. How long is the surgery and what is involved in the recovery period?

Dr. Palmer: Surgery is 4 to 6 hours long and as described above requires connecting the transplanted kidney blood vessels to person’s blood vessels and connecting ureter to bladder.

Recovery is 5-7 days in the hospital on average.

5. Selena Gomez needed an operation because of lupus. What are the main causes for children needing a kidney?

Dr. Palmer: Lupus is a rare type of renal failure cause and even more rare in the pediatric population. It is more common in adults. In kids, about 50 percent are due to urologic causes that they were born with like vesicoureteral reflux, posterior urethral valves or bladder anomalies. The other 50 percent are kidney problems and those can be congenital dysplastic kidneys to disease that come on later in adolescents that cause kidneys to fail. It’s usually very different types of problems for grownups, where the main reasons adults need a kidney transplant are hypertension or diabetes.

6. Selena had her best friend donate a kidney. How do we decide who the donor will be?

Dr. Palmer: It’ s very rare to have a non-family member donate. For most patients the donor will be a cadaveric, recently deceased donor. How the donor is decided goes through the UNOS matching system. LifeGift is our local organ sharing and procurement non-profit who coordinates this process for our region. 

7. What do you hope people learn from this news?

Dr. Palmer: Awareness that people in all walks of life and all ages are in need of donated kidneys. That it is a safe and common practice. That non-family members can donate kidneys as well. I have done two previous non-family member donations at a previous transplant program. Our goal is that 40-50 percent of our donations will be living related because our patients will do slightly better with a living donated kidney than a cadaveric. Although, they can do very well from both.

To learn more about organ sharing, visit the United Network for Organ Sharing.

Related Story: 8 Facts About Lupus

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* Photo from Selena Gomez's Instagram.

Thanks to a gracious act of kindness from one teenager in Arizona, a 1 year old from Joshua, Texas is no longer on that list.

Following a head injury while competing in a North Texas motocross event, Kenneth “Buddy” Wentworth III died at the age of 16 on Oct. 3, 2014. Buddy’s parents gave consent for donation. Since his death, Buddy donated his heart, lungs, liver, pancreas, kidneys, corneas and other tissue at JPS Health Network.

Eli received one of Buddy’s kidneys. Eli’s kidneys were destroyed because of massive blood loss by placental abruption, a complication of pregnancy in which the placenta separates from the uterus before birth.

Eli was one of the 134 kidney transplants that have taken place at Cook Children’s since 1993, when the organ donation program began.

The Wentworths and the Marskis met for the first time this week as part of the annual “Life Gift” flag raising ceremony that took place at Cook Children’s on April 16, 2015. The Wentworths flew from their home in Arizona especially to be there.

Darbie, Buddy’s mom, said the organ donation was Buddy’s idea.

Darbie said, “When I took Buddy to get his license, he said, ‘Mom, can I be a donor?’ My response was, ‘Dude, do you know what that means?”

It meant saving a little Eli’s life.

“Because of Buddy’s choice, we have the opportunity to raise our child and for that I will be forever grateful,”said Kammi Marski, Eli’s mom.